Texting can be quite tricky, especially if you want to find out if she likes you.
One way to find out if she likes you is through her body language.
But nowadays everyone interacts with their crush mostly through texting or dating apps.
Yet, you can tell if she likes you over text from the way she interacts with you.
If a woman isn’t interested in you, she won’t ever initiate a conversation with you.
What makes the distinction between her having a friendly approach and liking you is how she communicates.
When she is interested her replies will be more lengthy and she will share every detail with you.
To know how to understand her better, here are 12 sure signs she likes you over text:
1. She will text you quite often
Every woman texts in their way and has her style.
What they say and how often they interact with you depends also on their availability and personality.
Yet, when a woman likes you, they will initiate a conversation without any particular reason.
Most of the time, she doesn’t want to overdo it but she’ll still insist on opening a conversation.
She will either ask about your day or show interest in you in different aspects.
Sometimes, she might compliment or tease you just to know your stance.
If she initiates more conversations than you do then you can tell that she likes you over text.
2. She shares details from her life with you
It’s not always easy for women to open up to a man, especially through texting.
Hence, a study has found that women tend to open up more during the late stages of talking.
They need some time to trust you and be comfortable with you.
You can do it by also asking questions and making her comfortable so she can open up to you.
If she is willing to get out of her comfort zone and connect more with you emotionally, she is interested in you.
At times, it might feel like breadcrumbing and give you mixed signals, hence she is making a progress.
She is progressing into sharing small parts of her life, starting with what she likes and what she does.
3. She tries to find mutual interests
Always, it’s all about connection.
When a woman likes you and wants to show it over text she will try to find common traits.
She will ask about your preferences and share hers with you.
In this case, she might be straightforward or not just giving hints about what she might like.
She will ask about your favorite food, song, movie, or your hobbies.
Anything that will give you a special connection with one another.
When she insists to know more about you, she will talk about daily events.
In this case, she might tease you about whether you like a certain tv show or not.
The same method is applied to Tinder, Bumble, or any other dating app and texting too.
Hence on Tinder, women will be more straightforward than when texting because of its format.
4. She shares memes with you
If she shares memes with you and wants to make you feel better or happy, for sure she likes you.
How she operates depends on her personality and how much she uses memes.
If she doesn’t share memes that don’t mean that she doesn’t like you.
What makes the difference is the effort that she makes to be creative so she can connect with you.
This means that she finds that meme quite funny and interesting and wants to share it with you.
If she does this multiple times without you initiating conversation first, she is interested in you.
5. She remembers details about you
When a woman likes you and she is interested then she puts herself in your orbit.
It means that she remembers every conversation or any small detail about you.
From time to time, she will emphasize little details about your preferences or old conversations.
She will use it as a hook to start a conversation or even let you know that she wants to be more than friends.
These signs aren’t always clear, so you need to flirt and ask them back how and why she remembers it.
The answer that she gives will let you know a lot and you’ll find out if she likes you or not.
You can tell that she likes you over text if she is outstanding from the rest.
She will remember something that maybe even for you isn’t important or you forgot about it.
6. She asks a lot of questions
She is very curious about you and your daily routine or your future.
Her questions will be quite specific so she can get to know you better.
She is interested in you and centers her attention around you.
While she is asking these specific questions, she might use also a lot of emojis just to express herself.
Her questions might be specific enough to get to know you but not to disturb your peace or you.
- Have you done anything crazy in your life that you regret?
- What would your ideal date be?
- If you could describe me with three words right now, which ones would be?
How they come up with their questions depends on what they are interested to know about you.
7. She asks about your advice or opinion
This one is a sure sign. When she often asks about your advice or opinion on something about her.
If she knows that you like a certain restaurant then she asks your opinion about it.
When she tries the food there and then discusses that with you, she is interested in you.
Still, be careful. If she just sees you as a friend then she will ask about your opinion on whom to date or ask you about other guys.
You’ll know that she likes you over text when she asks your opinion about something dear to her heart.
With few words, when she asks about your opinion/advice she wants to involve you in her life.
8. She recommends books/movies to transmit to you a message
Even friends can recommend you movies or books but when she likes you they will do it differently.
Friends recommend books or movies because they know you will like them or have similar preferences.
A girl that likes you will wait for the right moment to send those to you and know your opinion.
This way she wants to learn more about you and send a hidden message.
Look closely at what she sends you. If it is a quote from a romantic movie or a romantic book then you know that she likes you.
Hence, not every girl reads romance books and she might still like you and send books or movies from other genres.
She is trying to get more connected with you in a creative way.
9. Her replies are lengthy
When a girl isn’t interested in you her replies will be short and dry.
Yet, when she likes you, she will find every little thing to continue the conversation.
- She will try to connect more with you by being vulnerable;
- Her answers won’t be just yes and no;
- She will be curious and asks questions following her reply;
This is one crucial sign that she likes you. The conversation never runs dry because she is interested in you.
This means that she likes you and wants to devote her time to you.
Mostly, nowadays that everyone is living a busy life, sparing some hours a day for you means she likes you.
10. She will notice the changing pattern of your texting
If you are busy doing something and you don’t text her as much as often, she will notice.
In this case, she will be the one that will initiate the conversation.
She will tease you and ask you if you are alive or ask you directly what you have been up to.
She will either get curious, jealous or tell you some jokes about disappearing.
You will tell that she wants to get an answer for why you have been distant and not responding.
If you want to know whether she likes you or not, you can take a step back and stop connecting for a while.
Depending on their attachment style and personality, they will either contact you or not.
Still, don’t be disappointed. You might contact them first and tell them that you were busy working or what you were doing.
Be honest and see how they react.
11. She uses a nickname for you
When a woman likes you, she will use a special nickname for you.
If you had a conversation before and jokingly she calls you a certain nickname, she will use it in the text messages.
This all depends on if you both know one another before texting and what type of conversations you had.
One thing to notice is if she playfully uses the nickname to tease you.
If she does that then for sure, she is interested in you and wants you to notice it.
If no one calls you by that nickname then that means she created one special for you.
12. She laughs about her singleness
One thing that a girl does while texting when she likes you is to joke about her singleness.
She might give you glimpses of her life and what she thinks about dating while joking.
At this moment, she wants you to know what she is dealing with and what are her interests.
She might texts you something like:
“Well, hope you had fun yesterday. I just had a solo movie marathon and ate leftover lasagna.”
When a girl starts to put trust in you and share something from her day, she likes you.
In this case, don’t be afraid to share your thoughts and experience too, and see where the conversation takes you.
Does a girl like you if she chats with you on the daily basis?
It all depends on your conversation and their intentions for initiating it.
A woman might chat with you daily and still not have romantic feelings for you.
What can help you make the difference is the way she interacts and the structure of the text message.
When she chats to you daily and likes you she will either slip something sexy or funny.
Many women might text you every day just to get attention and feel good about themselves.
Hence, when she is interested in you, she will make sure to let you know it.
- She will make sure that she will reply instantly.
- She will pour out her emotions.
- Your conversations won’t be dry and superficial.
- She sends you good morning and good night messages.
- When she doesn’t text back for more than a day, she will make sure to let you know the reason.
So, all of these elements should be looked at if you want to know whether she likes you or not.
Everyone can text one another every day but that doesn’t mean that she likes you.
Still, you need to also make your move and provoke them. Ask them questions too and get to know what they think or feel about you.
It’s easier to find it out if you contribute to it and not only to them.
You need to stop assuming and confront them even if you do it slowly.
Otherwise, you will continue talking daily and just being friends or nothing.
The bottom line: How do you know if she likes you over text?
Some signs are hidden whereas others are crystal clear. When she likes you, she will make a huge effort to give you her time and get to know you.
You will notice that texts message will be longer and your conversations won’t be dry.
If a woman doesn’t like you, she will make everything to either ghost you or just give you small talk.
This is what makes the difference.
She will constantly try to engage with you in every way.
Don’t become obsessed with every detail and hint that she sends you.
Instead, take a step back and take your time. Ask questions and be upfront.
Wish you the best,
Liam Barnett
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