It is not hard to get matches on Tinder.
However, what happens after you get a girl’s attention is of most importance.
You must have the right messaging words that will woo her to want to meet you face to face.
You must take care not to bore her otherwise, she will disappear from you.
Ever heard of the Tinder Match Disappeared?
Well, I do not want you to be a victim of it, rather a champion at online dating.
This will not be long at all. 8 strong messaging tips and just in 8 minutes.
Of course, there can be even 20 tips on what to say to a girl on Tinder but I will give you 8 of the strongest.
These are also guaranteed to achieve instant success for you on Tinder.
Expect to know these and more in the following articles:
o What to Say on Tinder
o What to Say to Girl on Tinder
o When to Ask a Girl Out on Tinder
o What to Talk about on Tinder
o What to Text on Tinder
o Some Things to Never Say on Tinder
o How To Improve Your Tinder Conversations
The more you practice the above tips, the better your Tinder conversations will get.
How would you start your Tinder conversation with a girl you just matched with?
1. What To Say on Tinder
You can say anything that you want on Tinder.
Even use curse words.
It all depends on who you are talking to.
Tinder users are different.
Others love a fairy tale talk,
Some are gentle and nice, others are very rough and sadistic. others love to get right into the sex.
So, you must look at your matches and see what they are all about.
This you can easily see on their bios or the nature of conversations that they engage you in.
The 8 messaging tips below are just a general rule but not at all final.
You can feel free to say whatever will make the conversation work for you according to your
Judge the situation according to what you see while you talk to them.
2. What to Say to a Girl on Tinder
I will give you 8 online dating success tips for messaging girls on Tinder.
They are not only easy to follow but very practical.
So, do not expect very complex things.
1. Get some ideas from her bio
Just the way your own bio is important to help her talk to you. Hers also is to you.
Girls are complicated and so, you should not expect direct messages in their bios.
They may use scripts, codes but they want something.
Have a look at this.
This is a very good example of a hidden code in a Tinder bio.
She is most probably hardworking and wants a hard worker too.
Make a point of checking her bio so that you get an idea of what she likes, dislikes, or wants.
Girls are weird, nice, horrible or just sweet and funny.
See the example above, she is a funny one. By all means, have a funny conversation with her.
You can also find it easier to talk to girls with Funny Tinder Bios than any other types.
Go for it.
2. You may not know what to say so, make it fun
There are times when guys are so lost and confused and do not even know what to tell girls.
Make that fact fun.
Play around it.
Come up with creative random things to say.
Base these on the five points earlier on how to start a conversation on Tinder.
You can quickly change the subject when in doubt.
Changing the subject helps you to quickly find something to say.
Being creative will always help you win on Tinder messaging.
Think about anything interesting.
3. Crack a good and opportune joke
These are the kinds of jokes that come with the flow of the conversation.
You may be talking about coke and you think up something in the moment.
“If you were a coke, I would never tire of shaking that bottle”.
Do not think so hard, just come up with it.
Let us look at a more real life example of such an opportune joke.
Remember, do not think too hard, let it just flow.
A good joke may even make a Tinder match that was once bored all of a sudden very interested.
It may make them appreciate your fun side.
It is all in the timing.
4. Give her some compliments
Tell her some good things about herself.
Do not overdo it.
Try not to repeat a lot that she is hot. She has heard you.
Compliment her face, fashion sense, music taste or travel destinations.
Tinder Statistics 2020 show that, complimenting a match helps boost their trust and interest in you.
He compliments her cute smile and brings it out in a funny way.
Now that is what I call, dating genius.
Complimenting a woman scientifically makes her wet for you.
She gets turned on by you.
This is one of the best ways to turn a woman on.
Try it and see it for yourself.
5. Try get her number or real name if at all she isn’t using one
Most Tinder names are not real.
So, a good conversation point is on asking for her real name.
However, do not do this too soon.
She may think you only want sex.
At least talk to her for like 20-30 minutes. Build that trust.
Now, comfortably ask for her real name.
If you can get that, you can also get her number.
The easiest way to get a girl’s number, just give her yours and wait.
Getting a girl’s number is an easy way to win her over for a date.
Form there, you can keep in touch with her.
Call her or text her.
If she has Whatsapp, you can video call her and see her before you meet face to face.
It is all about your game from here. You already are halfway there having her number.
5. Make her feel at ease by being open-minded
Tell her that she can speak to you openly.
Talking about random things is a good way to make her feel easy.
She will not worry about intelligence, style or anything else.
It will be all pure conversation between you two.
Always make her feel at ease.
Talk about food, movies, color, the chills, or just the latest gossip from Katy Perry.
Let her not think that you are uptight.
This means that she can talk sex with you or ask you about your sexual desires.
If you will talk sex, do not overdo it. Just play along with her.
Let her ask you about family and whether you are married or seeing someone.
Nobody wants to date you if you are without origin. Quit being uptight.
You must make her feel that you are a real person and not a Tinder Cheater.
She must know that she can meet you face to face one day and feel safe.
6. Get her thoughts on things you like or hate
You could try see what she thinks of red suits on a cold day.
Hey, ask her about her opinions on pizza with coke on a first date or a heavy meal instead.
If you are scared to ask directly, Browse Tinder Anonymously first then come back to her.
You do not have to be confident to talk to a girl.
You only have to be smart.
So, use Tinder discreetly, get to know about her and then ask her your questions confidently.
Pretty cool uh?
She could be into the things that you are into.
She could be even more interesting than you thought.
You go on and rack her brain on what you would like to do with her.
7. See if you can get a real-life date
You guys can’t just be chatting these girls.
In your conversations, you must be softening them up for a real life date.
You do this by doing all the above especially, complimenting her and making her laugh.
You cannot just be chatting in vain, ask her out.
You could do it the second or third day you talk or if opportunity presents, just do it today.
See, easy as pie!
Going out is the last step in the game.
You must try your best to follow the above 8 tips and secure her number.
When you go out, use the Tinder Date Ideas to get the best dating experience.
3. When To Ask a Girl Out on Tinder
Being on Tinder, you will come across a lot of matches, if you have a good profile and bio.
In addition, a series of good Tinder Openers will also help you.
Asking a girl out on Tinder follows from all the above, that is, the 8 tips above.
You should ask a girl out after getting to know her a bit.
This may not be one month or several weeks.
It could be as fast as a day.
What matters on online dating sites is Chemistry.
If you both have these and trust me, you will know it when it comes, you can ask her out.
There is no proper duration of time that you should take to ask a girl out.
It could be as short as a few minutes (from chemistry) or as long as one month.
Remember, dating a girl is not yet marrying her, it is just knowing her more.
4. What to Talk About on Tinder
Tinder has no limitations on what you can talk about.
Tinder users have their own personal limits on what you can tell them.
Some are uptight whereas others are open minded.
Some love sex whereas others love just chatting.
Therefore, what to talk about on Tinder will totally depend on the kind of match that you meet.
It is up to you to read their mood.
They may want to just chat or they may want a serious relationship.
What stands out is for you to keep on following the 8 tips that we already discussed above.
Tinder is a very open minded online dating platform.
It is up to you to make the most of it.
No one has restricted your messaging to matches.
So, fully explore it.
5. What to Text on Tinder
Make sure that you pay attention to the 8 tips above.
We have already covered what it is that you need to text on Tinder.
Tinder texts have to be:
- Carrying a clear intention.
- Have a bit of a light joke.
- Not Breadcrumb and waste people’s time.
- Be respectful.
- Show interest in the match so as not to bore them.
That is what to remember when texting on Tinder.
Culture your texts to always have these five points in them.
Most of these is just repetition of what we long discussed.
What to say on Tinder, what to text on Tinder, what to talk about on Tinder.
It is all the same.
Do not complicate your life so much.
A cow is a cow and not a man.
What to say on Tinder is the same thing that you would text on Tinder.
Make your life easier by borrowing the same tips that we have broadly looked at.
At times, you fail because you complicate yourself.
The rules are the same and they work.
6. Some Things To Never Say to a Girl on Tinder
Never ever say these things to girls on Tinder:
- A simple Hi, Hey, How are you?
These openers are so boring and they quickly turn her off.
You should add some spice.
Try to make her feel beautiful, pleasing to you or ask her some questions.
- Messages that immediately jump into sex
Take your time, she will hear you.
Not all girls are there for hookups.
So, try to ease up on your speed with her.
- Bragging about your “wealth” or sex game
If you want to quickly turn off a girl, talk about how much you are worth and brag about it.
Girls hate braggarts and sexually related egos.
Keep it humble even if you are rich.
- Cracking insensitive jokes
Leave her nipple size out of it.
Don’t make fun of her teats and lips.
Compliment her instead.
- Insulting them
You may not be coming out clearly to her.
She may act like she does not like you at all.
Do not get mad and insult her.
You are still a stranger to her. Just give her some time to calm down.
May be she was going through a tough time and you never knew that.
Do not insult her. She may yet come around.
How to Start a Conversation on Tinder
The Tinder Opener is a very crucial part to a Tinder Conversation.
It determines whether the conversation will go far or die a natural death.
Normally, the best openers are:
- Simple to understand.
- Have less than 500 words.
- Include a compliment to the girl you matched with.
- Carry a bit of a nice joke.
- Is respectful and kind.
If you can learn these 5 golden rules of Tinder messaging, you will be so successful at conversations.
There is no way that you will know what to say to a girl without first mastering the above.
Here is one more thing you must consider before talking to a girl, your own bio.
What To Write on Your Tinder Bio
Before we get to what you have to say on Tinder, you must help yourself first.
You do that by writing a bio that will help your matches know one or two things about you.
This helps you answer the questions that they ask you about yourself.
In this sense, you easily get to respond to matches and hopefully, make a girlfriend out of it.
Here is how to write a Good Tinder Bio that helps your conversations with a girl:
- Use a lyric from a song.
- Say a little about your job, interests or dislikes.
- Avoid spelling mistakes
- Again, do not be too wordy, just 500 words at most.
- Be funny and very creative.
So, your opener messages plus your bio equals a win Tinder conversation for you.
Good Opener+Good Bio=Successful Tinder Conversation
It is interesting how that can be put as a math equation.
Ah, those two were very important:
- A good Tinder Opener.
- A good Tinder Bio.
Now, let us see what you should say to a girl on Tinder to make her yours for long.
7. How to Improve Your Tinder Conversations Without Even Messaging
There are some things that you can do to improve your Tinder conversations.
You do not even need to say anything at all.
- Have a very good Tinder Bio.
- At least let one of your photos show your interests.
- Smile and do not appear too strict or grumpy.
- Try as much as possible to take good photos that bring out your good sides.
- Always make sure to appear to mean girls no harm.
You appear peaceful to girls by not carrying slogans that are against them.
Also, you make sure that you are careful not to wear shirts with negative messages against girls.
Make sure that you are as friendly to the girls as possible.
So, after all this guide, you should be able to succeed on Tinder.
You have all the tools to make proper Tinder messaging.
Here is a recap of how to talk to a girl on Tinder.
- Get some ideas from her bio.
- Play along with the fact that you do not know what to say.
- Have some good jokes around.
- Compliment her whenever you can. Do not overdo it.
- Try to get her number in your conversations.
- Keep her feeling at ease by talking calmly to her.
- See what she thinks about your likes and dislikes.
- Ask her out in the end.
There you go.
Who can’t you be able to message on Tinder now?
Your matches are going to see a different side of you.
They will quickly make you a popular Tinder user.
You will be scoring dates very easily now.
Even for those of you who were not confident, that will quickly change.
I have nothing more to add to this other than say, “Good luck” to you all.